13 April 2015

Felix at 2.5

A few things about Felix at age 2.5:
  • He is adorable.
  • He's really blonde.
  • He narrates everything all day long.
  • He tries to participate in adult conversations, and it's very funny.
  • He loves to take baths, have lotion put on his face, comb his hair, brush his teeth, get dressed, and choose his own clothes.
  • He's potty trained.


A few of his favorite things:

  • Playing outside.
  • Playing with his big brother.
  • Laughing hysterically at his own toilet humor.
  • Rice.
  • Green beans.
  • Salad dressing.
  • Reading books, especially The Bravest Knight by Mercer Mayer.
  • Trucks and cars.
  • Helping with emptying the dishwasher.
  • Doing his own laundry.
  • Being held or carried.



Felix is a pretty easy-going kid. He's two, so he has tantrums, but he's pretty easily persuaded to calm down. He repeats after us quite a bit, and though he's a good talker, he still has funny things that he says. He likes to sing, and he often has conversations with himself: "I need to go potty. Okay, let's go potty. Okay, take off your pants. Good job."

He loves to go places as a whole family and is very concerned about making sure everyone is included. Felix regularly tells me and Eric, "No go work today, Mom [or Dad]." He doesn't understand that there is a baby coming to our family soon, and usually when I talk about it he says, "I have a baby button too."

As a rule, Felix takes a while to warm up to people he doesn't know, or even people he does know but hasn't seen in a while. New environments can make him nervous, and he's likely to hang around me waiting to feel comfortable before diving in to join the fun. I'm happy to have him around me because he is so sweet.

03 April 2015

Pregnancy Brain

I don't feel like I've really had "pregnancy brain" with the first two, but I'm definitely feeling it this time. Generally I think "pregnancy brain" is not a fair description. I think the symptoms are caused more by lack of sleep  than anything else. There's also the general malaise of pregnancy that can make a person lose focus, and the fact that sometimes it is just really challenging to focus on anything besides the things that make you feel ill. With all that said, here are a few instances of my pregnancy brain:

  • I sat down for choir practice before church and realized I was wearing slippers. (Good thing we live in Utah and the church is a two-minute drive away.)
  • I sent my husband a text message intended for my brother.
  • I sat down to write this blog post about my numerous pregnancy brain experiences and now cannot recall any more examples. How fitting.

16 March 2015

Matching Boys

Most of the clothes my boys own are of the second-hand variety. We've been gifted many items of clothing (the vast majority), and have purchased at yard sales as well. Occasionally I do splurge and buy them new items, so sometimes they get to match:

Matching dinosaur shirts purchased at Target:

Matching polo shirts, also purchased at Target:

Matching jammies for Christmas 2013:
There are also matching jammies from Christmas 2014, but no picture yet.

And not matching, but at least coordinating Thomas the Tank Engine pajamas, that both boys have since outgrown:

(Anyone who has tricks on getting two little boys to be simultaneously still and smiling for pictures gets bonus points!)

And now they have these:
This picture was taken a couple of days after telling them that Felix is also going to be a big brother, and although Ike does not look happy, that was simply because he wasn't in the picture-taking mood. He is very excited to be having a new baby in our family. Felix doesn't really get it, but when told to pretend to "wash his bum" for the camera, he happily complied, thus getting him to get his hands out of the way so the text on his shirt was visible, and getting a happy face on. The child already loves any form of potty humor.

I feel badly that I'm just getting around to this, since I posted about it on a couple of social media sites nearly a week ago. But I'm due in early September. I think it's another boy.

06 January 2015

Crochet Snowflakes


Last Christmas I crocheted my dad a giraffe hat (because he likes giraffes), and I had so many problems with figuring out a good pattern that I had to stop and restart numerous times, and ultimately the gift arrived a day after Christmas. I don't have a picture of my dad wearing his hat, but here is a blurry, poorly lit, phone picture of Eric wearing it just before I shipped it. I was pretty sad that my parents didn't get their Christmas presents on time, and all because I couldn't get it together with this hat, which I had been planning to make him for months and months.

When we were visiting my parents in Texas this summer they gave me a book of crochet snowflake patterns. My mom made it really clear to me that she wanted some of these for her Christmas tree. After crocheting the knight hoods for Halloween I started making snowflakes, and I learned pretty quickly that they were more challenging than I expected. My mom's birthday is November 3, so I had enough time to finish and send just three snowflakes.

But for Christmas, my offering was much more significant. These are just 15 of the twenty I sent. And bonus! I got them shipped on December 15, and they arrived in time for Christmas. (The others were in the starching process.)

These are fairly challenging to make, simply because the hook is small, and the thread is fairly delicate. It is not the same as working with yarn. Each one takes between thirty minutes to an hour. The largest ones are about 3 inches across, and the smaller ones are about 1.5 inches. I watched a lot of "House M.D." while working on these beauties. I hope to continue to work on them all year so our own tree can be decorated with them next Christmas.

Here are some closeups:
 


01 January 2015

2014 - In Review

For a few years now I've done a set form of copy and paste questions to summarize my year (2013, 2012, 2011). Like RA, I've decided many of the questions are redundant or just plain dumb, so I'm tweaking it this year. (Also, I've usually posted on the last day of the year being summarized, but I'm a little late for that.)

Places where I slept at least one night:
  • Utah (includes camping!)
  • Wyoming
  • Colorado (includes camping!)
  • Texas
  • Arkansas (includes camping!)
  • Missouri
  • Pennsylvania
Outdoorsy things we did:
  • Canoed on five rivers: Provo River, Jordan River, Buffalo National River, Snake River, and the Colorado River.
  • Camped in three different states (see above).
  • Hiked in five states: Utah, Wyoming, Colorado, Texas, Arkansas.
  • Visited four national parks: Mesa Verde, Grand Tetons, Yellowstone, Arches.
My birthday:
  • Turned 30.
  • Went skydiving.
Generally noteworthy things:
  • Became a Certified Genealogist.
  • Learned more about my mystery ancestor, Isadore Gasser. (DNA is awesome!)
  • Continued to regularly make our family's bread. (Except the last month of the year. Not sure what happened there.)
  • Played church basketball for the first time since I was a teenager. I'm terrible, but it's tons of fun.
  • So much good food made by pilfering my neighbor's garden.
  • Won airfare for two to Hawaii.
  • I own a pair of Chacos. I love them.
  • We bought a nicer camera.
  • Lots of trips to Thanksgiving Point, and lots of picnics in the Gardens.
  • Lots of crafting: Roman shade, crochet snowflake ornaments for my mom, various holiday buntings, baby bear hat, knight hoods for Halloween costumes, mug cozy for a co-worker.
  • Potty-trained Ike and are currently training Felix, but at the moment I'm not sure if this is going to last.
Goals for 2015:
  • Go to Hawaii with Eric.
  • Earn more money than Eric. (This sounds like we're having a competition, but it's really just for me to measure myself. I have some good changes and opportunities coming up with my work, and I want to capitalize on them.) (And it also speaks to how poorly Utah teachers are paid, but that's another post for another day.)

2014 Books

In brief:

  • 56 books read. Of those 36 were audiobooks. (Wowza, commuting!) 
  • 21 were nonfiction. (Nearly half!)
  • Lowest month was January with 2 books read, and highest was September with 7.
Top ten percent of books I read this year (rounding up!):
  1. The Rise of Theodore Roosevelt by Edmund Morris
  2. Dreams of Gods and Monsters by Laini Taylor
  3. Wild Things: The Art of Nurturing Boys by Stephen James and David Thomas
  4. 1493: Uncovering the New World Columbus Created by Charles Mann
  5. The Fault in Our Stars by John Green
  6. Winter's Bone by Daniel Woodrell


January:
1. War Horse by Michael Morpurgo* - It was fine. I hadn't seen the movie, but after reading it, I wanted to see how they did the movie since the horse is the narrator in the story.

2. Delirium by Lauren Oliver* - I liked it. I'll probably read more in the series (As with all dystopian novels, it is, of course, a trilogy.), but I'll be sure to actually read and not just listen since the reader was not great.

February:
3. Remembering Isaac by Ben Behunin - A really boring book club read. I stopped about halfway through because I just couldn't take the feel-goody-ness of it any longer.

4. Pandemonium by Lauren Oliver* - I enjoyed this better than the second. I audiobooked it because I just needed something to listen to, and the reader was much better in this one. (Same reader, just improved reading.)

5. The Scorpio Races by Maggie Stiefvater* - Incredibly well-written, but rather slow. Once I got to the last couple of sections I just couldn't turn it off.

6. The Rise of Theodore Roosevelt by Edmund Morris - Probably the best biography I've read. I was eager to start the next two.

March:
7. The False Princess by Eilis O'Neal* - It got straight to the crux of the plot (the princess finds out she's not the princess), but then the lead up to the bigger drama in the book was fairly slow. Once it got moving I really liked it, even if the narrator said "room" really funny.

8. The Babes in the Wood by Ruth Rendell* - Very implausible plot combined with the mean-spirited portrayal of a fanatic religious group made this book frustrating to listen to.

9. In Defense of Food: An Eater's Manifesto by Michael Pollan* - An interesting read, but I found it a little heavy-handed. This was made worse by the narrator who had a very condescending tone. Still, I love the principles it espouses.

10. Salt, Sugar, Fat: How the Food Giants Hooked Us by Michael Moss - I loved the more scientific approach of why our bodies love these ingredients and how the processed food companies have capitalized on it. It was interesting to read it while also listening to In Defense of Food because the tones are so different. This one is much more about discovery rather than preaching.

11. The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants by Ann Brashares* - Decent fluffy reading even though all the characters were annoying.

April:
12. The Mighty Miss Malone by Christopher Paul Curtis* - I wasn't crazy about this one at first, but it really grew on me and I liked it a lot.

13. Divergent by Veronica Roth - Interesting story with pretty mediocre writing. Still, I'm excited to start the next one.

14. The Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls - I stayed up until 3:30 am reading this book. I couldn't put it down.

15. Reached by Ally Condie* - Ugh. So boring, and such terrible readers in the audiobook. All the reviews told me it wouldn't be good, but I felt compelled to finish it for some unknown reason.

16. Requiem by Lauren Oliver* - Meh. About what I expected for the end of another mediocre trilogy.

May:
17. Slouching Toward Adulthood: Observations from the Not-So-Empty Nest by Sally Koslow* - A bit tiresome and redundant in parts, but I enjoyed her humor. I really liked her take-away message too. (It is, essentially, that baby boomer parents need to stop coddling their kids if they want them to grow up.)

18. Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? by Mindy Kaling* - Very enjoyable to listen to. And read by the author, which made it more amusing.

19. Insurgent by Veronica Roth - It took too long to get there, but I was pleased with the ending. I'm eager to read the next one, despite the mixed reviews it has received.

20. We've Got a Job: The 1963 Birmingham Children's March by Cynthia Y. Levinson* - There was so much about this aspect of the Civil Rights movement that I didn't know. I thoroughly enjoyed this book, and I appreciated that she gave insight from 4 fairly different youth who participated in the marches.

21. Dreams of Gods and Monsters by Laini Taylor - What a great ending to this trilogy. I've read a few trilogies in the last few years where the endings have really fizzled for me (see above!), so I'm glad to have one that I loved in its entirety. I had audiobooked the first two, so it was interesting to read this one in print.

June:
22. Seriously...I'm Kidding by Ellen DeGeneres* - Short, but I tired of it quickly. I definitely laughed throughout, but there was nothing particularly memorable about it.

23. A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'Engle* - Not as great as I'd expected. I may have liked it better if I'd read it myself instead of listening to the author's reading of it. Eric was also underwhelmed.

24. Anne of Green Gables by Lucy Maud Montgomery - I loved this when I listened to it a few years ago. Loved it again this time.

25. No Easy Day: The Firsthand Account of the Mission That Killed Osama Bin Laden by Mark Owen and Kevin Maurer* - Another interesting one to listen to, but it was a little too technical in some parts for me. I also was annoyed by the author's obvious disdain for procedures that keep the military in check.

26. Allegiant by Veronica Roth* - I went in with pretty low expectations because of the mixed reviews it's received, but I really liked it.

27. Look Me in the Eye: My Life With Asperger's by John Elder Robison - Interesting overall, but a little slow and technical at times.

July:
28. One Year in Coal Harbor by Polly Horvath* - Meh. I might have liked it better if I'd read/listened to the first book. It didn't do a lot for me.

29. To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee - Such an amazing book. It was my second time to read it, and I loved it as much as the first time.

30. Dad is Fat by Jim Gaffigan* - Listened to this with Eric, and we both loved it. It's hilarious and sweet.

31. John Adams by David McCullough* - Listened to an abridged version read by Edward Herrmann. I just can't get over how much I love this man and how superior he was to Thomas Jefferson. Why isn't his face on Mount Rushmore?

32. Wild Things: The Art of Nurturing Boys by Stephen James and David Thomas - I really liked this book. It gave me so many insights into boys' brains and how they work. I loved that there were lots of practical tidbits and advice throughout the book without being overbearing about the One True Way to Raise Boys (as many advice books often are about the One True Way to do whatever).

August:
33. Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn - Argh. Such a compelling story told in a compelling way, but with far too much swearing and sex.

34. 1493: Uncovering the New World Columbus Created by Charles C. Mann* - I just cannot express how fascinating this book was. I would love to read it again in print form some time.

35. Bomb: The Race to Build - And Steal - The World's Most Dangerous Weapon by Steve Sheinkin* - A great audiobook. It was really interesting and fun to listen to.

36. Someone Like You by Sarah Dessen* - Argh. I just disliked this book so much. I should have stopped listening to it early on. Just so many irritating things.

37. A Day No Pigs Would Die by Robert Newton Peck - I can see why a lot of people find this book gruesome, but I really loved the writing. I'll be on the lookout for the second book. (Unfortunately it's not available for download through my library.)

September:
38. And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini - I like this guy's books. He tells great stories. And I read it in a time when I needed something meaningful but not overbearing in its sadness.

39. Call the Midwife: A Memoir of Birth, Joy, and Hard Times by Jennifer Worth* - I liked the book as much as the mini-series. I'll probably listen to the next two as well.

40. Night of Cake and Puppets by Laini Taylor - Such a great novella. It was both sweet and funny. Totally worth being my first ever Kindle purchase.

41. The Fault in Our Stars by John Green - This book is surprisingly funny considering its topic. I laughed out loud numerous times at the dialogue.

42. Between Shades of Gray by Ruta Sepetys* - I liked the story, but the reader was pretty annoying. My favorite part was probably the author's interview at the end of the audio version.

43. These is My Words by Nancy E. Turner - I'd read it before, but I loved reading it again for a book group read. I read it aloud to Eric during a road trip (and a little more to finish it off), and he really liked it too.

44. Argo: How the CIA & Hollywood Pulled Off the Most Audacious Rescue in History by Antonio J. Mendez* - The actual story of getting the diplomats out of Iran was actually not that thrilling. I liked hearing about his other experiences in the CIA though. The reader for this book sounded condescending the whole time, which put a damper on it.

October:
45. If I Stay by Gayle Forman* - It was fine. The last teen romance I finished was The Fault in Our Stars, and it's pretty hard to be as good as that one.

46. The Wednesday Wars by Gary D. Schmidt - Really enjoyed it for the second time. The plot is a little bit cheesy with everything ending up happily for most people, but the writing is so funny. I read several parts out loud to Eric. (We'd read it together a few years ago, and though he mostly enjoyed it, he didn't have the fond memories that I had for it.)

47. Princess Academy by Shannon Hale* - I really enjoyed this, both as a book, and also as an audiobook.

48. The Great Bridge: The Epic Story of the Building of the Brooklyn Bridge by David McCullough* - Anything read by Edward Herrmann is probably going to be worth your time. I found this so interesting, and I now I want to go to New York City again.

November:
49. Unbroken: A WWII Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption by Laura Hillenbrand* - Read it a few years ago and loved it. This time was for book group, and I loved it again.

50. Eleanor and Park by Rainbow Rowell* - Many laugh out loud moments. Not as depressing as I expected based on the reviews. Heaps of swearing.

December:
51. Destiny of the Republic: A Tale of Madness; Medicine and the Murder of a President by Candice Millard* - A generally interesting read, but not really one that got me blabbing to all my friends all the cool things I learned. (Which isn't to say that there were no cool things. Just that the book didn't make me excited about what I learned.)

52. Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson* - Overall a good read. Definitely on the depressing side, but it's meant to be.

53. A Long Way from Chicago by Richard Peck* - I read this a few years ago. I decided to download it to listen to on our way to and from Moab, but I didn't love the audio version. We only listened to a little of it. I then finished it over the course of several weeks of working and commuting. The audioversion has won some awards, but I felt the reader was much too slow.

54. Story of a Girl by Sara Zarr* - A rather dark read with an overall interesting theme.

55. East of Eden by John Steinbeck - I love Steinbeck's writing. This book is pretty dark, and I can't recommend it to everyone. Still, I loved its beauty.

56. Winter's Bone by Daniel Woodrell - Two books in a row that are really dark and gritty but with beautiful writing.

*Denotes audiobooks.