06 June 2019

2019's Second Summer Trip - Capitol Reef National Park

School let out on Thursday, and we went on a trip immediately. Ike got home about 11, and then Eric got home about 12:10. We exited the garage at 12:20, which is one of the most on-time departures in our history of road tripping.

We drove straight to our campsite just outside of Capitol Reef National Park. (Our original plan was to go to Bryce Canyon on Thursday, then drive to Capitol Reef on Friday afternoon, but it's still freezing in Bryce Canyon, and many trails are still closed, so we opted to spend the whole time in Capitol Reef.) We rarely camp at reserved sites, and we always cross our fingers that we'll find a good place. We got a real winner this time. We set up our tent as thunder and lightning (but no rain) raged overhead. We had experienced sleet and hail as we came over a pass into the area of Capitol Reef and were a little nervous about what the weather would hold for us. We crossed our fingers that our tent wouldn't get flooded while we headed over to the park. (And it worked!)

After a brief visit to the visitors' center, we went on an easy hike in the Grand Wash. It's through a slot canyon along a streambed and is nice, flat, and easy. There was still a lot of whining, despite the ease of the trail. The boys took turns running ahead of us, hiding in the brush, and then jumping out to "ambush" the family.

I took another selfie where I looked better, but I loved Trixie behind me being a ham in this one, so enjoy it.


The rocks throughout the park have holes in them, of varying sizes. The kids loved the chance to climb into holes that were big enough and accessible.

On Friday we drove along the scenic drive and then hiked Capitol Gorge to The Tanks. They are these little ponds of water trapped up in the canyon. This hike starts really flat, through a canyon on a streambed, similar to the prior day's hike. There was SO MUCH WHINING while we did that section. Then, there was climbing over rough terrain, sometimes without incredibly clear trail markers. We really had to keep our eyes peeled for the cairns (stacked rocks) to show us which way to go.

The tanks were pretty cool, mostly because they had such huge tadpoles.



Ike caught a few and even got some for his siblings to hold. Trixie was a little bit in love with hers and even pet it a few times before tossing it back in the pond.

Ike managed to fall into one of the tanks, which was very reminiscent of the time he fell in a pond in 2013 when we were hiking in Zion National Park. I will always remember, from the picture on the left, "I wet. A mess." This time we took his clothes off, wrung them out, and then had him put them back on. The trail wasn't crowded at all, so we could get away with our 8-year-old being partly naked on this trail



The mounds of rock behind us supposedly look like the domes at the tops of capitol buildings, which is where part of the name of Capitol Reef comes from.


After our hike we stopped for lunch. This was the only picture I really got of my girls in their matching t-shirts. At some of our previous national park visits, there have been Asians amazed with our blond children, and they ask us (generally with their hands) if they can take pictures of our kids. This park had virtually no Asians, but some Spaniards did circle our picnic table taking multiple pictures of our family. I should have asked them what their deal was. Were they impressed by the blondies? Or by the sheer quantity of children? Really, I should have said, in Spanish, "If you think this is a lot of kids, you should see my husband's brothers' families." But mostly I was dealing with, "Who wants mustard? Who wants Miracle Whip? Who needs an apple?"


We've been to about one gazillion national parks, but this is the first time we did the Junior Park Ranger program. Felix finished his first.

After that (plus a class about geology) we went to Hickman Bridge. It's only .9 miles each way, but it's fairly steep. I was taking Trixie to the bathroom at the beginning, and I came back to the van to learn that Eric sent Ike along the trail with Felicia. We didn't figure they'd get too far without us, especially because Felicia is so little (not yet 2). Eric needed to use the bathroom, but I headed up the trail with Felix and Trixie. I even carried Felix part of the way because the Ergo has a weight limit of 45 pounds.

Because the boys were wearing matching shirts, it was easy for other hikers to recognize that they belonged together, even though they were split up. People coming down the hill kept telling me my other two were doing a great job.

I was amazed at how far they got without grownups! Once we all were united again, I put Felicia in the Ergo again. Around this time Trixie started really struggling. Meanwhile, Ike was taking off and getting too far ahead. Eric offered to hold Trixie's hand, and she refused. A man passed us, and Eric said, "Do you want to hold his hand?" And Trixie very strongly refused. That man laughed and passed us right up. I then went to catch up with Ike and tell him to slow down. That same man was just in front of him, and I told Ike, "You are not allowed to pass that man." I then slowed down to hike with the rest of my family and heard Eric again entreating Trixie to hold his hand. Then, jokingly say, "Well, do you want to hold her hand?" referring to some perfect stranger hiking nearby. And that was an affirmative answer.

It turns out the man whose hand Trixie refused to hold was this lady's husband. We had a great chat with the couple. (He's Australian, and she's Canadian, and they're taking the year off from their regular lives to travel.)

Hickman Bridge itself was totally worth the hike.


Felicia was so tired that we moved her from Eric's hiking backpack to mine, and she slept through the whole thing. And we foolishly forgot that the Ergo (my preferred carrier) has a thing to cover up heads, so we just used the tied bandana to keep the sun off her little face.

This was the last we saw of Ike on this hike, because he took the "stay behind that man" very literally and followed him down the trail. We found him waiting for us at the bottom.


The Kohab Canyon hike is a little over 3 miles one way. Our initial plan was to hike it from one side to the other, then have me (or Eric) run back to the van, and then drive around and pick up the family. But in the actual canyon, we decided we'd seen what we needed to see, especially with the end of the hiking coming so close to Hickman Bridge, which we'd just done the day before. When the trail began descending toward the end, we turned around and hiked out the same place we'd come in. That ended up being the best option anyway, because it was close to the ice cream place.

I would have loved to have done Cassidy Arch, but it's over 4 miles, and we knew it would be too hard for the kiddos. One day we'll do it.

Our camp site was pretty awesome. We camped on BLM land a few miles outside of the park. We found a big enough flat spot for our tent, and the kids loved climbing the hills around our site (and also sliding down the hills on their bums. So we've got some horrible red stains on a few pairs of pants.)

Saturday was our last day. We prepped the kids on Friday night telling them we would be doing our longest hike the next day. It started very close to a little gift shop in the park, and we told the kids if they could be good on the hike, we'd buy them ice cream after the hike. That was some serious motivation for them.

Kohab Canyon starts off as a steep hike up several switchbacks. We started at 8 AM, so the switchbacks were still in the shade.

Trixie loved the switchbacks. Anything uphill, and especially up rocks, was super fun for her.

Kohab Canyon itself is gorgeous! Along the way there were lots of little slot canyons to explore/cram ourselves into.


And when it was done, we had our ice cream.

Then back to the visitors' center for the other two kids to earn their Junior Ranger badges.

On our way out, we hiked two small trails, Goosenecks and Sunset. Felicia actually did most of these two hikes on her own.


And then somehow I got tricked into carrying Trixie on the way down from the last hike.

It was a great weekend. I can't wait to go back to Capitol Reef park! The lack of crowds was practically magical. We'd love to go back and explore some other areas of the park (besides just the Fruita district), and we'd love to go when some of the fruit is in season so we can pick some!

19 May 2019

2019's First "Summer" Trip - Moab and the Colorado River

My title has the word "summer" in quotes because:

  1. The first official day of summer is not until June 21, just over one month away.
  2. Even if you consider "summer" to be the months of the year when the children (and my husband) are not in school, we aren't quite there yet. (Felix has three days of kindergarten left, and Ike and Eric have eight school days left.)
  3. We returned to our home and had to turn the furnace back on because it's been rainy and cold at our home. (The plus side of this is that we can continue putting off turning on the sprinklers.)
Last year's summer trip was 5,000 miles long. I've noticed that usually we alternate having long trips and short trips. This is partly because of the ages of our babies (we're way more willing to do horribly long days in the car with babies than with toddlers, believe it or not) and partly because those big trips take a ton of time and energy to plan (especially for Eric who tends to obsess over them). (Case in point, in 2014 and 2015 we did big road trips; in 2016 we did a couple of short trips; in 2017 we had a tiny baby, and Eric had his grad program, so we didn't do a ton of anything; in 2018 we took a really long trip; and in 2019 we have about 5 smaller trips planned.)

Anyway, we kicked off our summer trips this weekend. After bombarding you with all that unnecessary text, I will now bombard you with tons of pictures.

We headed out Friday morning (Eric, Ike, and Felix skipped school, which meant missing Felix's kindergarten graduation, which was a bummer). We drove through Spanish Fork Canyon. Our school district has a summer camp in a city up that canyon, and Eric works at it a few weeks each summer. Working the summer camp has meant he has learned lots of information about the canyon. As we drive in, he always tells the kids about the important landmarks, some history of the canyon, and other interesting tidbits. (Of course, once we pass the town where the camp is located, he tends to get much less informative.)

The interesting thing about this trip is that we had invited several other families to join us. Eric initially invited families to come canoeing with us on Saturday morning, and he told them our family would be camping on Friday night. Most of the families said they wanted to camp too. Usually when we go to Moab we camp in a ghost town near Moab, but we knew our spot would not accommodate as many people as would be joining us. When we got to Moab we went to the designated camping spots only to realize there were no vacancies. Thankfully my over-obsessed husband had planned for this contingency, and we ended up on some camping-approved BLM land even closer to Moab than where we normally camp. (The pictures Eric had seen of this land had made it seem like a terrible place to camp, but once we got there we realized the pictures don't do it justice.) Trixie also learned that she loves porta-potties at this camp site. It is a strange new fascination for her.

We set up our area and did a lot of waiting around. Our cell reception wasn't great, so we were worried about the other families finding us. While we waited, the kids found and caught lizards. (Among the families joining us is a family that has ten children, of whom seven are boys. They brought six of their boys on the trip.) At this point there was also a family with a teenage boy and a little girl who joined us, as well as a another family who brought two of their three boys.



Hank caught this lizard.


And then its tail came off:



Then we drove over to Arches and went hiking. We didn't have a lot of time, and the weather at the park wasn't promising, so we just did Park Avenue and Double Arch.



This was the only little girl with us for most of Friday, and Trixie sort of fell in love with her.



No, my husband did not morph into another man. We were in a big group, and Eric was down taking photos, so Beau helped my kids and me get up.


We camped that night, and had a great time hanging out with our friends. In total we had six families camping together. 

Our family camped in a tent that we've owned for a while but had never used. Eric had picked it up at a yard sale for $10 knowing that the zipper was broken. Earlier in the year we set it up to see how bad it was and realized we couldn't just make do with a broken zipper. I did some research and purchased a zipper repair kit. Last week we set up the tent in the yard. I got out my seam ripper so I could access the ends of the zipper, then Eric put a new zipper pull on, then I stitched her back up. When you factor in my labor costs, it was not a cheap repair, but still a better price than we would have paid with a professional repair of the zipper or a new tent of that size.

This was the first time since 2015 our family all slept together in the same tent. Had Felicia been well (she was a bit sick on Friday, but we kept her dosed with ibuprofen), it would have been a great night. We were all plenty warm and comfortable. Felicia did end up in my bed because she just wasn't feeling well. (I took her this morning to urgent care, absolutely certain that an ear infection was the culprit, and I was wrong. She's just regular-sick. No antibiotic cure for her.) And Trixie ended up in Eric's bed because she just loves to cuddle with her dad.


On Saturday morning we ate breakfast, packed up, and headed to the Colorado River for canoeing. One other family joined us, bringing the total to seven families in ten canoes. We canoed a stretch of what Eric said was 8 miles, but is actually closer to 12. (One guy in our group tracked it with GPS). We were done in about 2.5 hours. The views were beautiful, the weather was mostly good (a bit chilly when the wind blew), and everybody who entered the water did so of his own accord.





A bunch of the older boys dared each other to take a dip, and it was apparent that the water was incredibly cold (as recently thawed ice tends to be). They all climbed back in their boats as quickly as they could. Upon seeing them Ike wanted to try it to. He was in our neighbors' boat (they came sans children). Unlike the big boys, Ike really jumped away from his boat, which meant he had to swim back a few feet. His facial expressions said it all.



Then the poor kid didn't have the upper body strength to get back into his boat on his own.

Felicia really struggled the last hour, and we had no medicine in our boat. She was so upset when we were done that I couldn't get her to take the medicine we had for her. Thankfully one of our group had a chewable Tylenol, which I told Felicia was candy. Worked like a charm.


After canoeing, we went back to camp because some of the families hadn't packed up in the morning. Then most of us headed over to Goblin Valley State Park. It wasn't in our original plan, but we followed the masses. Ike had a blast; Felix thought it was fine, until he no longer thought it was fine; Trixie loved it; and Felicia was adequately medicated and finally well-napped, so she tolerated being carried around on mine and Eric's back.






After Goblin Valley we drove home. We packed a lot of fun into that short trip. Everyone's super duper tired today, and it's early bedtimes for all.

09 January 2019

Christmas 2018

A few things I want to remember about Christmas and New Year's this year:

This was our first year to have a non-believer in our household. Partly because of that, and partly because I wanted our kids to have more tangibly participate in our charitable giving, we found a project we could all do together. We bought "home kits" for refugees being housed in the Salt Lake City area. We all went to the store together and found the items on the list. The refugee group also requested Beanie Babies animals for the children. I wanted each of my kids to choose an animal to donate. The store didn't have what we needed, but I knew they were carried at my local grocery store, so we headed over there. The boys chose Minion-branded Beanie Babies. Trixie chose Skye from Paw Patrol, which I think she has only seen once. All she knew was this stuffed animal was a pink doggy, and she wanted it.

Now, I made it very clear that these toys were NOT FOR OUR FAMILY. They all repeated it many times. Everyone seemed to understand this concept. The toys were set aside with the home kits, and they were not played with. A few days later I had time to take the donations to the center in Salt Lake City. I let Trixie hold "her" pink dog on the way up, and I let her come in to deliver it. She willingly gave it to the lady but seemed a little confused as to why she wasn't giving it to another kid since I'd been telling her ever since we picked them out that these toys were for other kids.

Then she cried the whole way home about her pink dog and demanded several times that I return to the refugee center and retrieve it. I did not.

After that she started telling us that Santa was going to bring her a pink doggy, and he did.



The dog has hardly left her side since Christmas morning. She even took it with her for her surgery a few days after Christmas (ear tubes in, adenoids out).

The boys woke us up bright and early Christmas morning. We made the awake kids line up on the stairs before coming down.



We had a nice time opening presents. I always let the kids choose things for everyone in our family at the dollar store. This year Ike used some of his own money to buy a nicer gift for Felix, and it was sweet to see him get so excited about giving a gift. I think next year we may do a name exchange and allow the kids to buy each other nicer things. (I may be sick of dollar store trinkets filling up my house.)

Felicia got some real presents, including a book about her first year. She also recieved that little blue bouncy hours, and she's rather afraid of it.

But what Felicia most loved was the domino she found under the couch. She carried it around all morning.

After breakfast at home, we went to Eric's grandma's house and hung out with Eric's brother, Andrew, and Eric's brother, Nathan, and Nathan's family.

Eventually we headed home and had our traditional dinner of chicken biryani with Andrew and with my friends, Priscilla and Joey.

Our post-Christmas break included lots of board gaming. Trixie had her surgery somewhere in there. We had a game night with Eric's cousins, and a game day with another cousin and his wife along with Janssen and Bart. We had previously celebrated New Year's Eve with this same group, pre-kids. We all toasted to no kids in 2006, and we all succeeded in no kids until 2010. We weren't together on New Year's Eve exactly this year, but I'm pretty sure we all could have toasted to no kids in 2019. (We have 11 kids between the three families. It was a little chaotic, but lots of fun.)

Eric's sister and her family come for a visit. (No pictures!) We stayed up way too late playing games.

It was hard to go back to real life when the break was over.

07 January 2019

Felicia: Eighteen Months

Felicia turned 18 months on New Year's Day. She is ready for nursery at church and has been going off and on for a couple of months. (Technically her first day of nursery is Trixie's first day of Sunbeams, but since we had Felicia going a bit early to nursery the girls did overlap a few weeks.)

Felicia's words include:
  • DA! (Always shouted, and always enthusiastic. Applied to many people, not just her dad.)
  • Ma
  • Buh-bye
  • Mmm (more)
  • Ashes, ashes (while spinning around)
  • All fall down (not really clear, but in the context it is obvious)
  • Thank you
  • Uh oh
  • Nigh-nigh (night night)
  • I do!
  • Peek-a-boo
  • Hi-ya
  • Hewwo
  • She might also say Ike's real name. It's still a little unclear.
Felicia is my most "into stuff" child. I can usually find her emptying cabinets and drawers or digging around in garbage cans for a tasty morsel. She also eats a lot of food off the floor. (Usually food that she just spent an entire meal time chucking onto the floor.)

Also, everything is a phone.

Felicia loves:
  • Eric
  • talking on the computer to Eric's parents
  • going outside
  • being picked up and held
  • wandering around and meeting people at social gatherings
  • going to bed
  • her binkie
  • running
  • the songs we sing for Family Night, specifically "Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam" and "I Can be Valiant."
  • taking baths
And here are some pictures of her from the last six months:

Emptying cabinets:

At the Ashton Gardens:

Camping near and hiking in Arches National Park for fall break:


Family Pictures


02 January 2019

2018 - In Review

I feel like there's probably not a lot here that isn't already covered in social media and previous blog posts, but I do like to just have it all listed out like so.

2018 Highlights
  • So many trips! (See below.)
  • Trixie talks now. It came so quickly once it started coming, and she is like a different child now.
  • Running a 5K. (And now I'm training for a 10K.) This was either my third or fourth attempt to train with Couch to 5K, and I finally finished it and run even more now. It feels awesome (and still kind of weird) to actually WANT to go for a run.
  • Lots of trips to the aquarium.
  • Trixie learned to talk and got potty trained.
  • We got a new park right by our house.
  • More canoeing on our local river than ever before.
  • Ike started a piano class that has been good for him (and me!). He's learning theory, and having him in an environment where I am not the teacher/enforcer has been good for us.
  • Felix is enjoying kindergarten, and he's learning to read.
  • Big strides for both boys in swimming lessons this summer. Trixie and I also took a class together, which was tons of fun.
  • The boys and I read the first three Harry Potter books together, and I have definitely instilled a love of that series in my oldest kid. I consider that a parenting win.
  • Felicia learned to crawl, and then to walk, and then to run. She also says a handful of words.
  • I was released as choir director and am now the Primary secretary. For years I've longed to be a secretary of something because it's right up my alley, and now it's my thing!
  • I've also told about 700 people over the course of the last nearly-eight years since we moved into our house that I would love to help with/attend Young Women camp, and just two days ago I was asked to be on the stake YW camp committee. So, wishes being fulfilled over here.
Places in 2018:

  • Spring Break and Easter in Montana with Eric's brother's family.
  • Road trip to Seattle to drop off our kids with Eric's sister so Eric and I could go to Europe. Germany, Czech Republic, Austria, Switzerland, Lichtenstein (for 10 minutes), and France. I already blogged extensively about these places, but it really was magnificent.
  • Massive 5000-mile road trip to the Midwest and down to Dallas to visit my family. I added four new states to my list of states I've visited. (New to me: South Dakota, Iowa, Illinois, and Indiana. Other states on that trip: Utah, Wyoming, Nebraska, Iowa, Missouri, Oklahoma, Texas, New Mexico, and Colorado.)
  • Fall break in Moab.

Birthdays/Traditions:

  • Our birthday visits to Cold Stone are firmly cemented. Nobody will let me forget to go. Eric skipped out a few times while he was cutting back on sugar to lose weight, but that just meant more ice cream for the rest of us.
  • We held our shepherds' meal in December. Historically we've only invited Eric's family, but with his parents out of the country this year, we invited friends, and it was great.
  • Fondue to celebrate the last day of school.

2018 Goals:
  • Finish Personal Progress - NOPE. I worked on it at the beginning of the year, and then it just kind of fizzled when I had some calling changes. I better get it done in 2019 if it's ever going to happen.
  • Edit and resubmit genealogy publication - Again, I worked on this at the beginning of the year and then never finished it. I probably need to recruit some colleagues for a little more hand-holding on this one.
2019 Goals:

  • Redecorate my living room. My friend, Molly, has already created a design board for me, so I have lots of inspiration, and I'm ready to go. (The biggest task in this project is getting Eric on board since this involves taping and painting, and he thinks our living room is fine as is.)
  • Run a 10K? Look, I'm not committing to this whole-heartedly. I'm sure I can do it, but I have some other work-out interest right now, so I might end up focusing on a faster 5K or something non-running-related altogether. But definitely I want to keep exercising.
  • Read more books on paper and Kindle. I love audiobooks, but sometimes I rely on them too much and use them to justify wasting time. (For instance, I spend a lot of time dinking around on my phone while listening to a book and then justify said wasted time by calling it "'reading.")
  • Read more books with my kids, especially chapter books with the boys.
  • Maybe get around to finishing up those 2018 goals. (And with commitment like that, clearly I'm on the right track.)